J (another sad story from her)

Sorry Yong, i do not intend to copy your inspiration for posting but i have been holding back on this post idea for quite some time already ever since i got the news from her (the girl in that post) about her break up AGAIN.

Not that i want to claim to be an expert in relationship predictions but i guess i was right about this guy as well. It NEVER seemed right from the very start but she seems to be not able to make the right decisions when it comes to relationships though all seem to have a good start.

Let's not condemn her further instead pummel the idiot guy who made a super crazy decision from my point of view. The decision to not wed the girl of his dreams, which i believe would not happen to him again. What was the conflict? Religion vs love. Being filial and religious is one thing but to pass on the chance of a lifetime from a very understanding and willing companion, i really have no word to describe. Perhaps you can accuse me of being too biased or regard her too highly but being a person who had been very close to her and was once in the guy's shoe, i could not help but to think that way.

If religion is so important why not become a monk/pastor/priest or whatever title that associates you closer to God. I love to quote from a cartoon series where a supposed monk exclaimed, "If you want to be closer to God, why don't you just go and die!". That is the most logical statement i have ever heard about religion.

If you want to talk about being filial, this girl have been through it all and of course taught me many things about being filial either via her own personal experience stories or heart felt advices. So there is actually no problem on this matter.

If you want to talk about income capability, then the 2 of them working and with her independent family in an above average status will not require her to contribute monetary wise. Heck her father even bought her a house when she was still single, in fact all her siblings also have a house to their name.

Too bad i have not seen her online for quite some time already, else there will be a lengthy chat again. This blind fly does seek my advice but like most people who consult me, they do not want to listen to my heed and more often than not end up realizing the prediction i casted upon them.

She really does deserves a break from all these not so good lucks. I hope she will have some good news the next time we chat again.

p/s : For those who are wondering what does J mean? Its her her initial without giving away too much detail.

Bamboo9

After a VERY long time of not hanging out with my friends, i could finally regain some freedom and let loose a much needed break. I think its been well over a year since i been to any drinking session, don't even mention about beer or liquor, even yamcha also most of the time could not make it.

I had a great time during this session despite being very drunk at the end of it. Here are the pictures as proof. Happy birthday my dear friends!

The birthday boys + organizer (the self proclaimed sexytary)

More pics with the birthday boys

What a happy bunch

Your's truly with a new hairstyled wifey

The leng lui-s

Some makeshift birthday cakes from a similar named shop (Bamboo9 Deli)

The "hmm" gang?

Your's truly with Aunty Chee totally wasted

Note : Pics ripped from Sexytary's facebook.

Periods

The kind of periods that i want to talk about are no doubt about female periods. Not in the sense that its a monthly repetition kind of thing but more of the effects on the person and the people around them.

Some girls will claim that they will have bad stomachaches until it really disrupts their life, some claims to have no ill effects and etc. So what the hell is really happening? For those who show signs physically, of course one will get the plain fact to avoid any issues with them. For those who claim that they suffer no ill effects, to me still show some signs of change in their attitude.

The change in attitude can be seen or heard when they flip out, out of a sudden when in normal times they would be more calm in resolving some issues. A normal touch also can set them off. In some cases, you just want to care for them, sigh.

Are there anymore signs which one should look out for? Ladies give the guys a hand, please.