J (another sad story from her)

Sorry Yong, i do not intend to copy your inspiration for posting but i have been holding back on this post idea for quite some time already ever since i got the news from her (the girl in that post) about her break up AGAIN.

Not that i want to claim to be an expert in relationship predictions but i guess i was right about this guy as well. It NEVER seemed right from the very start but she seems to be not able to make the right decisions when it comes to relationships though all seem to have a good start.

Let's not condemn her further instead pummel the idiot guy who made a super crazy decision from my point of view. The decision to not wed the girl of his dreams, which i believe would not happen to him again. What was the conflict? Religion vs love. Being filial and religious is one thing but to pass on the chance of a lifetime from a very understanding and willing companion, i really have no word to describe. Perhaps you can accuse me of being too biased or regard her too highly but being a person who had been very close to her and was once in the guy's shoe, i could not help but to think that way.

If religion is so important why not become a monk/pastor/priest or whatever title that associates you closer to God. I love to quote from a cartoon series where a supposed monk exclaimed, "If you want to be closer to God, why don't you just go and die!". That is the most logical statement i have ever heard about religion.

If you want to talk about being filial, this girl have been through it all and of course taught me many things about being filial either via her own personal experience stories or heart felt advices. So there is actually no problem on this matter.

If you want to talk about income capability, then the 2 of them working and with her independent family in an above average status will not require her to contribute monetary wise. Heck her father even bought her a house when she was still single, in fact all her siblings also have a house to their name.

Too bad i have not seen her online for quite some time already, else there will be a lengthy chat again. This blind fly does seek my advice but like most people who consult me, they do not want to listen to my heed and more often than not end up realizing the prediction i casted upon them.

She really does deserves a break from all these not so good lucks. I hope she will have some good news the next time we chat again.

p/s : For those who are wondering what does J mean? Its her her initial without giving away too much detail.