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when you are lonely, your mind will play tricks on you. Perhaps its not playing tricks, when you are awake, your brain is supposed to do something. If you have nothing for it to do then it starts to have fun and gives you images/thoughts of perhaps some unworldly things.

there is no second chance in life. I wonder why the heck there are so many prisoners then? Just have them all dead for the wrongdoings no matter the offense was heavy or light. IMHO if a person really wants to try to correct what he/she have done, at least listen to whether the person genuinely have the intention to do so.

one should look before one leaps. 'Look' can be done from several angles, if you only have your own views then there will never be wrong according to your own set of rules/view. 'Leaps' should only be done when the 'look' is firm and correct/acceptable.

some decisions in life will come back and haunt you. Nobody is perfect, so of course there will be wrongdoings. I have had many many decisions come back and haunt me, some are genuinely my fault so i accept them. Some which are more serious, perhaps are done with consideration of several factors/people. Despite a good intention, the outcome may not turn out to be as expected hence the haunting.

things will never be same again. I believe this depends VERY much on your amount of experience. If you have seen much of the world then there is nothing much to surprise you with.

men should not cry. I believe there was a medical article which said about your eyes requiring some washing from time to time and tears are natural washers.

good people die younger/faster OR good deeds are repaid with bad consequences. So i really find this to be true as there have been many good people who are now gone from this world. Its not to say that bad people will have eternal life but im just saying that maybe we should re-look at life and not being such a good person after all.

钱不是万能, 但没有钱是万万不能. For those who don't understand, "Money cannot solve everything BUT without money, everything cannot be solved". Ironic but very true, many may deny the fact BUT the fact of the matter is, everything revolves around money.