Monday, November 17, 2008

Always on the wrong side of the fence

There have been many occasions where the verdict upon my head was the complete opposite of what i wanted to achieve. Sometimes i feel that im really rooted to the wrong side of the fence where everything which i do is wrong in society's eyes.

Why am so heartless to make my son have 1 parent only?
1) I really do not have a choice and to shoulder 2 person's role in my 2 shoulders are really taxing.
2) I have tried many ways to not let this happen but there really is no light at the end of the tunnel for the situation and anyways this tunnel is narrow that you can only move forward, there is just enough space for you pass though in a straight line at the moment.

Why don't you change job so that you can earn more?
1) Its not like i have not been trying, the salary offered are same or lower than my current one.
2) Perhaps you can really say that im pampered by the benefits from the bank, a hospital bill reminded of what i may have to fork out. So if i get a similar paying job without the benefits then its actually a downward move rather than lateral.

Why your driving so aggressive one?
1) Everyone have their own way of driving. You like people cutting your queue, your own fucking problem. I hate people cutting my queue ESPECIALLY when i have been following the queue from the end of it.
2) I don't really like to drive slow, that is why i got a manual car where i am more in control of what speed and pickup i want.
3) I signalled to turn and you should too especially at the Tesco and Telekom junction! Those who don't, gets a mlm from me.

Why you talk so direct one?
1) I believe i have always been like that, hence not winning me too many friends.
2) What is wrong about being truthful?

Why are you so strict with your son?
1) That was the way i was brought up and i find it to be effective and good
2) I have seen too many cases of pampering/spoiling until the children are useless. Yes, from my point of view they are entirely useless but for the people who are pampering/spoiling the children, they are angels. So in their minds, they should preach the same to other parents and the rest must follow, sounds very religious no?
3) Pampering/Spoiling parents who let their children run amok inside and/or outside the house is their own fucking problem, when the children get hurt, don't come crying to me with regrets. I never understand them, allowing/condoning the children play dangerously is accepted but preventing your children from getting hurt due to dangerous play methods is WRONG?!

Knowledge is power, NOT!
1) The factual things you learned/know are not liked.
2) Note to self : MUST shut the fuck up when others are talking about things which you are interested in so that they can talk untrue bull crap.

From boss : Please give me your opinion on .
1) I think all working people would know what is about to happen next, so just shut the fuck up so you don't get fucked up.
2) If whatever the fuck which are coming out of your mouth are not in line with the boss' thoughts then you better shut the fuck up.

At work.
1) Just mind your own fucking business, other units' work are theirs, you must not interfere even when its to help them.
2) If you don't report to the same boss, then you don't talk to each other unless you are friends.

Wah good lar you, get to buy cheap house by taking over your father's home loan.
1) He is over 60 already, he should not be working anymore to pay the loan.
2) Nobody else in my family is able to take on this loan, actually when i takeover, i will only manage to squeeze by only as well.
3) I want to live in a double storey-house, i wish to climb stairs and have more space in my room.

1 thoughts:

Chong Soon Lee said...

1. Why am so heartless to make my son have 1 parent only?
This is not good. We bring the children into this world(because of the 5 seconds of fun), then now is the time to pay back. You want or do not want, you have to do. This is responsibility. If you thing that 2 roles is to heavy for you, why don't you let go your the other role?

2. Why don't you change job so that you can earn more?
Sometime, talk is easy. You can ask the one who complains to change role with you. As long as you do not involve in criminal, even though the money that you have earned is not that much, people will still respect you. What human being needs is just foods, clothes, and a bed (you can have more than one) to sleep. If we can't increase what we can get, then we may need to lower down our demand.

3. Why your driving so aggressive one?
This is personal hobby, so what? Can i ask you not to admire on LV?

4. Why you talk so direct one?
ye.. ye.. When i am not direct, you can blame me as a liar. It depends very much on what you want to say. Whatever lah.

5. Why are you so strict with your son?
Because he is my son. If i do not do so, who else will?

6. Knowledge is power, NOT!
No comment.

7. From boss : Please give me your opinion on .
Team work = the whole team must follow what the leader says.

8. At work.
No comment as i am one of the victim also.

9. Wah good lar you, get to buy cheap house by taking over your father's home loan.
The one who complains with only jealous but nothing else. It is my own business, if you do not agree, please talk to your own father.

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