Some thinking over the weekend ...

On Saturday while driving to return some goods, there was a program that was doing an interview on a supposed local rising star. She was asked a question regarding relationship. So the famous saying came up, "Why give up an entire forest for a tree?" or if you are a person looking from the other side of the mirror, "When would the correct tree be found or show up?"

The first saying i have heard about it alot but the second one, i have not heard before. That got a ball rolling in my mind.

When is the correct time?
There is actually never a fixed age, well maybe with the exception of M-s whereby its somewhere around 27. Modern people would tend to be more guided by their monetary plan, how much to have before they tie the knot. Must have at least a home, car and 50k cash etc etc etc. If you followed your heart, it might have been when you are just 17/18 years old?

Where is the balance? Usually associated with another saying, "Ride a cow to find a horse"
It is almost impossible to find a perfect someone. The most is that you may find someone similar to your dream guy/girl either physically or traits, rarely both. So, let's say you found someone who is 70% of what you consider as a perfect match, is that good enough? 3-4 years into the relationship you found someone who is 80% match, what would you do? And then a 90%? The thing with this issue is that when would this person come along and what are the chances of you meeting this person? Even so, would you be that person's dream match?

So if you have decided to Nike, would you really not consider/think the above? Decisions, decisions ...

Not so related song, 迪克牛仔 - 想说

好想能守候在您的身旁
您温柔的眼光阻挡着忧伤
好想能停泊在您的海港
让船儿一直停放永不再出航
我在每一个漆黑夜晚独自忧伤
害怕这思念却无法伪装
我在每一个破晓黎明等待着天亮
等待您给我不灭的火光
心里有话想说心里的痛您懂
有太多太多的情感覆水难收
心里有话想说心里的痛您懂
我不愿埋怨的泪水已经没有尽头

*read out slowly
好想能守候在您的身旁
您温柔的眼光阻挡着忧伤
好想能停泊在您的海港
让船儿一直停放永不再出航
*end read

我在每一个漆黑夜晚独自忧伤
害怕这思念却无法伪装
我在每一个破晓黎明等待着天亮
等待您给我不灭的火光

心里有话想说心里的痛您懂
有太多太多的情感覆水难收
心里有话想说心里的痛您懂
我不愿埋怨的泪水已经没有尽头